John Milito's Amazing Adventures
"We shall not cease from exploration and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time." T. S. Eliot
Thursday, June 06, 2024
Daryll Hall & Elvis Costello
Monday, June 03, 2024
Costco Encounter
The three of us were shopping at Costco for large packages of stuff we don't need when a man wearing a surgical mask riding an electric shopping scooter cart thing passed by. He put it in reverse and stopped near us and said something like "let me ask you a question". This rarely leads to a pleasant conversation in my experience but I decided to give him a few seconds for his elevator pitch. He said "the VA told me I'm dying" and said something like "I'm using the time I have left to make children happier". He pulled out a think manilla envelope like what you'd wrap a bribe in. Sadly he did not have a stack of cash for us. He then asked what sorts of animals Ernie likes. We listed a few and when we got to "ducks" the guy pulled out a thick stack of photos and shuffled through to the duck section. We picked one and gave it to Ernie. Ernie likes pictures and so was impressed. I was glad that he handled it gently... it would have been mortifying for him to take a big slobbery bite out of it while the poor man watched. He then said goodbye and motored away. I gave everyone a big hug as I was reminded of my own mortality. I also felt guilty that I had no words for this nice man when he told us he was dying. It's not a conversation I have a lot of practice with and the moment was gone too quickly for me to formulate anything. I hope that man enjoys the rest of the time he has left. Really I can think of a lot worse ways to spend my twilight than zooming around Costco eating free samples and entertaining children. I guess it's not really that much different than what I do now.
Ern woke up in the middle of the night and did some screeching for someone to come comfort him. He was standing up but as soon as he saw me enter his room he laid down on his tummy so that I could pat his back and he went back to sleep. I think his new daycare has trained him to do this but it seems to work out for everyone so I'm down with it.

